Loving a Scorpio is anything but boring. They are passionate, intense and full of great mystery; a Scorpio knows how to keep things exciting and their sexuality is nothing to be taken lightly.
Scorpios are naturally empathic and highly intuitive, which makes them more sensitive to emotions than most. Scorpio’s are dominating and headstrong, but in the end, they will always follow their hearts. Because of this quality in themselves, they most often listen to the hearts of others over rational thinking processes and can be left confused and hurt when someone doesn’t follow their most authentic desire.
So if you are dating, are married to, or are related to this zodiac sign, here are the crucial things you need to know about loving a Scorpio.
12. They are intense
No other symbol in the zodiac can match the intensity of a Scorpio. Whatever they do, they do it with reverence, or they won’t do it all.
11. They can be self-destructive
The sign of the alchemist, Scorpio rules over death and rebirth and therefore is natural at breaking down aspects of themselves to start over from scratch. From an outsider’s perspective, it may appear to be self-inflicted abuse; however, a Scorpio knows that it may take a meltdown to build themselves back up again and this time, stronger than ever before.
10. They can be overly sensitive
As Scorpio’s are highly intuitive and naturally empathic, they tend to absorb the energies of others and reverberate them into their being, let alone to try to cope with their emotional dealings. Therefore Scorpios can be highly sensitive, and it is crucial to support a Scorpio, the way they need to be. Reassuring a Scorpio “that everything will be o.k” and that there is no need to worry can do wonders for emotional stability.
9. They are introverted
The extroverted introvert, a Scorpio, loves to be the center of attention when at a vibrational high, yet will become recluse once the energy is either attained or dispelled. They are naturally gifted at “small talk”, and know how to be charming without letting outsiders see the real authentic part of them.
8. They believe in fairy tales
Scorpios are magicians by nature, and they are keen at reading between the lines. Love stories like The Notebook or fairy tales like Cinderella, conjure their inner knowing that miracles are real. A Scorpio loves to search for these hidden meanings lying just below the surface and will scratch until they break the veil.
7. They are stubborn
The intensity and tenaciousness of a Scorpio can drive them into tunnel vision. Once they are set on something, its hard to make them see anything but what they are focused on. When offended, a Scorpio will plant their feet hard and dig in deep. It takes the soothing and calm demeanour of their partner to melt their ice and bring them back to a level head.
6. They are independent
A Scorpio is clear to let you know that they don’t need you, without speaking a word. They are robust, determined and self-sufficient. The hard shell of a Scorpio allows them to manage alright when it comes to every day, but what they need is someone who can match their level. No doubt, a Scorpio has or will have gone through relationships where they assume the leadership role, and while they can do this with ease, for the long-term, they are looking for someone whom they can trust enough to lead them.
It takes a lot to earn respect and trust of a Scorpio, and this is because they can see right through you, don’t ever think they can’t.
5. They tend to be overthinkers
A Scorpio always hears what is behind the words being spoken, the “what’s not being said” is their domain and because of this, they can’t help but lean towards the overthinking end of everything.
4. They take things seriously
On the downfall, Scorpios have been known to take life a little too seriously and need to be reminded that the universe is playful! They are hard on themselves and are known to hold guilt for longer than a reasonable time. Let your Scorpio know that they shouldn’t sweat it.
3. They are highly observant
Not much gets past a Scorpio, a natural detective, they will be on to you before you know it. So if you are trying to be sneaky, you’d better be on your A-game.
2. They are highly sexual
No doubt, word on the street is that a Scorpio is crazy in bed. If you aren’t looking for anything but the contemporary, choose a different sign to be your mate. Scorpios know how to take regular ordinary sex and amplify it into something more– sensual, spiritual and creative. They understand the power of creative sexual energy and know just how to wield it. But beware if you double-cross a Scorpio, they have complete control over their reproductive organs can shut it down, turn it off and lock it up, just as quick.
1. They are crazy!
Scorpios are highly creative, and this creativity needs an outlet! If a Scorpio is pent-up without a release or stuck on an idea without closure, you’d better watch out because it’s going to get out, one way or another.
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