“I trust that everything happens for a reason, even if we are not wise enough to see it. When there is no struggle, there is no strength.” Oprah Winfrey.
The well-known Greek Philosopher Aristotle believed that everything happens for a reason, always. He understood that every experience in your life was designed to shape you and reform you into the ultimate and highest version that you could ever imagine yourself to be. The only thing that prevents you and me from knowing the reason is acquiring the wisdom to see it.
1. In Times of Struggle
Every negative experience, every time of struggle, can then be perceived as an opportunity for tremendous growth. Alike to a caterpillar burrowing from its chrysalis. When all of its forming and changing is complete, its metamorphism has transformed it into a magnificent butterfly. It has shed its former skin and flown on the wings of new life and a new way of being.
2. In Times of Healing
Some may find it hard to believe that everything happens for a reason, especially when experiencing grief or loss. At the time, it may be challenging to see the blessing in it, as all that is felt is pain. But it is through our lowest points in life, where we gain the wisdom and allow for new-found strength to emerge.
“Without loss, we wouldn’t appreciate gain, without grief, we wouldn’t know joy. Without death, we wouldn’t appreciate life, and without fear, we wouldn’t know love.“
3. In Times of Happiness
By far, the most victorious of all happenstances, when it all comes together in one moment, the AHA moment, as the metaphorical photo finally develops. When we reach the point, after all of the struggles, the self-substantiating realization beams through, and we finally see the wisdom behind the subconscious choices we’ve made. Clarity shines through like the morning sun peeking out on the earth’s horizon.
4. In Times of Chaos
Real chaos cannot be chaos for as long as there is a choice involved. Things may appear to be random, but as we all know, appearances lie.
“To someone who can’t read, letters on a page appear to be randomly chosen when in reality, they are precisely ordered.” Deepak Chopra.
Meaningful coincidences and synchronicities may also be viewed as random events with no connection, yet to the eye of the beholder, those events would have a real purpose and meaning.
5. In Times of Reflection
We see the pieces of the puzzle begin to come together, each unfolding a beautiful picture. The pain, the turmoil, the struggles and the victories, each essential building blocks to the moulding of who we are today in this present moment.
An unfinished product, always growing, learning and experiencing. And by reflection, we see why it had to happen the way it did.
“You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something – your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life” Steve Jobs.
This article 5 Reasons Why Everything Happens for A Reason has been acquired by and is the property of The Free Spirit Journal and holds the copyright to the works in this article which were originally published on October 16, 2015, at isoulscience.com and republished to several blogs with and without permission.